Friday, January 30, 2009

First Wives Club for Dummies

Calling all ladies, and any gents that have input. As part of my 2009 New Years Resolutions I am hoping to put together a daily/weekly "routine". I don't know if any other mom's face the same thing or not, but I know that no matter how many "responsibilities" I get to, there seem to be more that I don't. When you focus on the house, you neglect the kids.....when you focus on the kids, you get behind in the laundry. And after it all, you realize that it has been a month since you changed your sheets and it is 3:00 pm and you haven't had anything to eat yet. You get the picture. 

So...I have decided I am going to figure out a routine for each day/ week... that will allow me to get all my responsibilities done, without neglecting other areas. I will start with a list.....THIS IS WHERE YOU COME IN.... A list of all things that most women have every day. I will start, and PLEASE.....add to it. Get creative ! I will update the master list as new idea's come in. Please consider things that are daily, weekly, monthly, and even yearly. 

GET YOUR FRIENDS INVOLVED !

Housework/Chores:
Laundry
Bathrooms
Vacume
Dust
Dishes
Garbage
grocery shopping
changing sheets
washing rugs

Playing Mommy:
making meals - snacks, lunches, breakfasts
spending quality time
educating ( library, coloring, etc. )
physical activity ( parks, etc. )
baths
Family Time


Playing Wife:
Getting Ready : ) 
Having energy at the end of the day : )
Dates

Domestic Engineer:
bills
budgets
tithing
mail
car and other repairs/maintenance
additional income - job ???

Spiritual: 
daily scripture and bible study
prayer
teaching children 
church and church activities
spiritual home atmosphere

Personal ( yes... it is a category ):
Hair cuts/color
personal grooming ( mails, toes, etc )
makeup ???
time alone to recouperate
time with friends

Saturday, January 24, 2009

How is it possible...

to have so many blessings in my life. God....is simply amazing. Now I know not all people in this country feel that way, but I do. I have the best husband in the world. Spiritual leader, kind and generous, thoughtful, loyal. A great dad and attentive partner. I have two beautiful and intelligent little girls that could not possibly be kissed by me enough every day. Good friends. A nice home. Not a lot of money. Perfect !

God has always been in my life, but as I grow older and my perspective changes I am so much more able to see His miracles in my life. It is true....the closer you grow to Him as a couple or family, the closer you grow to each other. The more you seek the more you will find. 

For anyone that doesn't believe....ask yourself why. These questions you have are beautiful. Written in your heart for a reason. God is bigger than your disbelief and all He wants is for you to seek answers to your questions with an open mind. Pray, read scripture, seek your answers. Amazing will happen.

I am doing a bible study at 6:30 pst everyday on the war on Christianity. An article I read was the catalyst to this decision for a topic. It stated that Christians staged the so called war so that we could in so many words, have something to complain about. I have never been so fueled. I wanted examples that would prove this writer wrong. Not a hard task. But more than that I wanted measurable ways that we as Christians can combat them. 

So....reader.... : ) .......what examples can you thing of ? What ways can we put on our armor of God to help the good ?




Wednesday, January 7, 2009

How sweet it is....

----To see your children love on each other. Today Jordyn asked me if she could give "sissy" a bottle. I told OK and sat her down in the recliner and put Kami in her lap. Those of you that have had kids knows that a 9 month old doesn't always hold still while eating so I was a bit nervous. But Kami help perfectly still, other than rubbing Jordyn's face and hands. It was probably one of the proudest and most pleasurable moments of my life. They were so engaged and content. The pictures still don't do it justice. Anyways, I just wanted to share. Made my week.

Who am I ?

Favorite color ?  blues and greens
Favorite song ?  Believe ( Brooks and Dunn )
      Remember When ( Alan Jackson )
      I Can Only Imaging ( Mercy Me )
Favorite ice cream ?  Rocky Road or Vanilla Bean ( Only if Breyers or Dryers )
I really prefer frozen yogurt ( plain tart from Peach Pit )
Favorite sport ?  To play - volleyball ( surprise )
       To watch - volleyball or MEN"S basketball
MAC or PC ?  Once you go MAC you never go back
Favorite Book ? The Mind Gym and The Bible - I don't like fiction
Favorite Food ?  Burrito's at Nugget Market 
Favorite TV Show ?  Grey's Anatomy and Celebrity Rehab
Favorite Movie ? Sweet Home Alabama, Mona Lisa Smile, Erin Brockovich
Favorite Type of Sushi ?  Seared Ahi Tuna with Red and White Sauce from Taro's
Celebrity Look Alike ?  Jessica Alba ( yeah....I wish )
  most common comparison... Reece Witherspoon
Car I drive ? Jeep Liberty 4WD
Favorite Season ? Fall, can't beat the colors. 
Favorite Holiday ? Christmas hands down
Car I would buy if I could afford anything ?  Prius ( I know ) or A Hybrid SUV
Favorite Dessert ?  Oatmeal Scotchies or Brownies with ice cream.
Favorite Restaurant ? Outback or Fat's Asian Bistro (it was Cliffhouse but they closed)
Blond or Brunette ? I like to be both, and even red !
Favorite Smell ? Rain, clothes just out of the dryer, and freshly bathed babies
Perfume I wear ? Hippy Fizz and Ralph Lauren ( "Rocks" )
Favorite Hobby ? Volleyball and Photography
Favorite Quote ? "Perspective is powerful" and " You can not break the law, you can only                                         break yourself against the law" ( regarding the 10 commandments )
Favorite Chore ? Laundry, if I don't have to put it away.
Neat or Messy ? Extremely neat. 
Favorite Actor ? Vince Vaughn and Kate Hudson
Favorite Cereal ? Lucky Charms ( but I never eat it )
Text or Phone Call ? Phone Call !
My Space or Facebook ? Facebook
Profession ? Volleyball Coach and Professional Photographer
Alma Mater ? highschool ( Cheyenne High School )
 college ( Sacramento State )